The Simplest Roadmap For Parents Who Want To ...
Improve Connection, End Power Struggles, And Manage Intense Emotions
Family Growth Pass gives you the strategies and regular support you need to create the family you've always wanted ...
in DAYS, not MONTHS!
'Kids Don't Come With An Instruction Manual'
I constantly hear that line from parents in my private practice ... yet we all fantasize that the latest parenting book will be magical... only to be disappointed when it either doesn't work, or simply doesn't 'fit' their parenting philosophy.

Parents often them beat themselves up wondering what they got wrong. Others can't work out why parenting is SO hard.

Or they wonder why their child is 'so difficult, 'too sensitive', 'has rage issues' or is just 'highly anxious'...
I can't tell you how many worried clients come to me saying...
'Heidi, I seriously think I'm screwing up my kids'
I hear you! - I'm a mom too! I know the constant feeling of overwhelm, frustration and 'why won't they just listen to me?!' that comes with being a parent.

I know what it's like to feel frustrated with my kids more often than I'd like, worried about managing their mental health, and second-guessing the parenting choices I'm making...
  • You see your child struggle with things like anxiety, anger, friendships, or emotions in general and feel like you've tried everything and don't know what else to do.
  • You live under a cloud of fear that you're 'screwing them up' by the way you or your partner parent.
  • You regularly feel like you're 'doing it wrong' and just can't handle another power struggle.
  • You fight with your partner about conflicting parenting philosophies.
  • You find yourself yelling too often because 'that's the only way they seem to listen'.
  • You worry about your relationship with them, and stress about how the teenage years will unfold.
Here's the thing about how most of us approach parenting ...

Most of us parent based on how WE were parented. We unconsciously have 'old parenting programming' wired into us from our past.

A lot of us secretly believe the pathway to creating a happy family must be raising 'obedient' children who are respectful of authority and 'never out of control.'

But that OLD parenting model damages our kid's mental health, creates disconnection, and impacts their self-esteem and confidence in detrimental ways.

And if you want to know the truth? ... Parenting through control, force and coercion never works long-term.  The real pathway to raising happy kids who are a joy to be around.... is ALL about connection.

We *think* we can control our kids. We *think* we can threaten, bribe, or manipulate them into doing what we want. But as any adolescent's parent will tell you: 'a teenager is gonna do what they want. You can't MAKE them do anything. You don't have control....all you have is influence.'

And if we want to have influence over them... we need to be connected to them... If our kids feel controlled and constantly corrected by us... they certainly aren't going to feel connected.

The thing is... we were never taught any of this
Sure, you've learned a model of parenting based on how YOU were parented, but often, that model is outdated and out-of-touch with current research...

... and all of our parents were rookies! They may have raised 6 kids, but that doesn't mean they were nailing it.

You may feel like you've 'turned out ok' based on the way you were parented ... but how's your relationship with your parents today? Do you feel connected to them? Do you want YOUR children to grow up the way you were raised? Is what you're doing now working?

Your parents probably weren't malicious, they did their best... they too were working with the best information they had at the time - and most likely - parenting the way THEY were parented.

And the truth is, when our parents were growing up, there wasn't a lot of parenting research being done, there weren't parenting books readily available. I mean come onnnn, smoking was encouraged by doctors to pregnant women for decades! The long-term impact of parenting style wasn't really studied long-term until the 60s and 70s!
YOU, however, have one advantage your parents didn't have: decades of evidenced-based research to help you do better - to be who you needed when you were younger
I've worked in mental health over the last two decades in prisons, schools, community organizations and private practice. Ad the ONE KEY THING thing I've learned? ...

... so many of the clients I've seen as adults could have had their mental health challenges minimized or avoided all together IF ONLY their parents had learned a few VITAL techniques AND understood the most harmful ones to avoid.

One of my life goals is literally to put myself out of a job, and equip as many parents as I can with the tools and skills needed to help their kids thrive in this world... rather than suffer.

Just like with our physical health: the best mental health treatment is always PREVENTION.

My hope is that we can work together TODAY, so I don't have to see your child on my therapy couch in 10 years time with a M U C H larger problem we could have nipped in the bud TODAY.

The good news is that it's never too late (or early) to start parenting in a way that isn't damaging.

By implementing the strategies and philosophies you'll learn in Family Growth Pass each month, you'll be dramatically reducing the amount of baggage your kids take to therapy one day! Send them off with a toiletry size bag... rather than a 5 piece Samsonite set, yeah? 😉

The BONUS? You're increasing the chances of your kids WANTING to spend time with you when they no longer HAVE TO. The thought of only seeing them twice a year as adults is enough to stop most of us in our tracks ...

Let me show you how to create relationships with your children that will make you their first phone call when they're in trouble ... and be their preferred shoulder to cry on.

What Parenting Success Looks Like For My Students
What would parenting success look like for YOU? ...
How It Works ...
Dive in to the easy-to-understand video modules (previously sold at $1,997) and master the new way of parenting using evidence-based methods. 'It's easy to learn with Heidi' is a common thing we hear!  More than 24hrs of powerful content to transform every aspect of your child's mental health and emotional wellbeing.
Integrate and consolidate your learnings by completing the program's worksheets and journal templates at your own pace. Feel confident as you implement all the new strategies in a structured, well-thought-out approach.
Join our monthly, LIVE 'Ask Me Anything' Q&A calls to have your questions answered directly by Heidi (and 'keyword-search' the transcribed recordings to find exactly what you need if you miss one).
Tune in for exclusive monthly trainings that address parenting challenges nominated by Family Growth Pass members.
Fit the course around YOUR daily routine with our iOS and Android apps. Listen in the car, during meal prep or while you're clearing the latest Lego creation from the middle of the hallway. Wherever you go, Family Growth Pass is with you!
Book a discounted 1-on-1 call with Heidi (exclusive to Family Growth Pass members - these are no longer offered to the general public) to tweak your new parenting approach in real-time!
The Cold, Hard Truth: 

If we don't learn how to STOP controlling and START connecting...
very little is going to change in the issues our children are facing

Einstein's rhetorical question - 'What's the definition of insanity?... Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result' - is exactly right.

If WE (the adults) don't try new things, and start parenting in the ways our kids NEED rather than how WE were parented, we pass our burden onto the next generation.

The same family dynamic is going to continue delivering the same conflict, self-doubt and disharmony you're experiencing today.

Nobody can have a perfect relationship with their children, but we all have the power to improve it exponentially... and you're no different! You're not going to be my unicorn student who doesn't notice changes within days!!!

With Family Growth Pass, you'll:
  • Discover the autopilot script you've been running with your children that's been driving every parenting decision you make.
  • Understand the importance of building emotional literacy in our kids (and OURSELVES) to create a family you LOVE spending time with.
  • Recognize the central role that connection plays in all aspects of your family life, and find ways to prioritize it above all else.
  • Gain clarity around your child's greatest needs so you don't waste a minute on things that DON'T MATTER or DON'T WORK!
Heidi Rogers

I've helped thousands of parents build connection,
manage anxiety  and create a family they -want- to spend time with...
I hope you'll join them!
I wanted to create a supportive community that enabled parents a way to connect with me, gain all my teachings and past webinars and courses in an affordable way.

But the cost can be prohibitive for many parents when trying to work with me or sign up for one of my long-form courses. I get it. And it sucks!

That's when I started thinking about how to help parents in an affordable way, while still offering kickass value (to be totally transparent: my private parenting clients pay anywhere from $200 per hour to work with me 1-on-1. And my Total Parenting Transformation course costs $1,997).
I don't offer anything as inexpensive as Family Growth Pass, and chances are I never will again, because, well... 17 years of my career has gone into building this - it's proven and it's powerful. You'll get a LOT of bang for your buck when you join.

Since beginning work with parents online, I've honestly found that the power of community, the benefit of group learning, and the insane value within the videos is BETTER than working with me 1:1. And its also a fraction of the price!!

Over my entire career I've seen so many parents struggle with common but TOTALLY SOLVABLE challenges in their children. Like anger, anxiety, yelling, bullying, self-esteem, reslience, body safety, sibling rivalry, school refusal ... being dragged out of COSTCO like a human mop!... the list goes on.

People often stay stuck, and their family never transforms into a group they WANT to spend time with.

It's for that reason I want to make sure I get this training into as many hands as I possibly can, so I can help you get going and help your children even faster.

Sooooo tell me ... you in?

This Is Not Your Ordinary 'Parenting Membership'

There are so many parenting courses and memberships online, it can be hard to choose the right one for your family.

Here are 5 reasons why working with Heidi is the best investment you'll make in your family this year:

1. No Fluff
You're not getting a membership packed with a huge, overwhelming list of things you'll never use. Instead, you'll have concise, powerful and evidence-backed tools and concepts to create a happier home.
2. Structured learning
Family Growth Pass is a 'hand-holding', supportive program that keeps you on track and helps you build your learning in a step-by-step manner - created by an experienced clinical psychotherapist who knows what works to improve connection, end power struggles and manage intense emotions.
3. Built On Clinical Experience
Heidi is a mother of two and a qualified clinical psychotherapist who has focused on anxiety and trauma-related issues with adults and children across her 18-year career. This means the content you'll study is informed by a dual perspective - that of the parent AND the child, providing solutions to common challenges they each face in a family context.
4. Access To Heidi
In addition to monthly 'Ask Me Anything Calls' and live trainings, Family Growth Pass members have the opportunity to book a 1:1 parenting session (for a discounted extra cost) with Heidi. These 1:1 sessions help you tweak your parenting in real time and are not available to the general public.
5. No Overwhelm
Begin applying new strategies and tactics at a speed that suits you, following a proven, step-by-step process. No stressing about what to watch next, or how different concepts relate to each other. It's all laid out for you to study at your own pace!
Looking For A More Personal Experience?
Family Growth Pass Intensive gives you a direct line to Heidi via private message thread. Have your questions answered and get support from Heidi in a 1-on-1 coaching experience. One parent said 'its like being in a WhatsApp chat with Heidi. It's so reassuring to know she's just a text away.'
Proven Strategies. Real Life Results.
Discover how everyday parents, just like you - are creating happy, connected families using Heidi's teachings ...
Emily & Luke:
Parents Of Three Primary Schoolers
"We were at the end of our tether because we were coming from different viewpoints on how to parent, which can be very difficult. One of the best things to come out of working with Heidi is that we're now on the same page parenting-wise."
Mom of Two Teenagers
"We've learned so much. It's also given us a connection with Heidi ... she just understands and gives you a feeling that you're enough as you are. That you're not a rubbish parent. That's a very special thing."
Single Mom of 5-year-old Twins
"I always had in the back of my mind that I might not be doing things 'right' - that I wasn't parenting to the best of my ability. Heidi has helped equip me so I can break the pattern and set my children up to be decent parents as well."
Matt & Aileen:
Parents of 13-year-old
"Our daughter has morphed from a withdrawn iPad addict, reluctant to engage with anyone but a few close friends, into a bubbly, engaged, fun person. Heidi is a real life-saver."
Mom of 6-year old and 18-month-old
"It's not just getting a whole bunch of general theory and information, but you really feel like you're supported in your unique situation. You feel like you're part of a community. You feel like you're kind of part of something bigger."
So, Let's Recap!
  • Instant access to 24hrs + of step-by-step video courses designed to transform you from overwhelm and self-doubt, into a confident, connected and happy parent. Value: $1,997
  • Monthly group 'Ask Me Anything' call (including searchable recordings). Exclusive to Family Growth Pass members. Value: $97 /mo
  • Access to monthly training call on popular parenting topics (including searchable recordings). Exclusive to Family Growth Pass members. Value: $97 /mo
  • Access to exclusive parent community forum. Value: $297
  • Worksheets and resources to integrate and personalise your learning. Value: $197
  • Total Month 1 Value: $2,685
Family Growth Pass
... now only $57 /mo
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More than 24hrs of step-by-step video courses to build connection and cooperation in your family
Monthly Group 'Ask me Anything' Call (including recordings)
Monthly Training Webinar
Access to Private Parent Community Forum
Access to Resources Library of journal templates, worksheets, cheat sheets, and links to integrate your learning
Listen and watch via our iOS and Android app on your mobile device
NO lock-in contracts - cancel any time
Family Growth Pass is backed by 17 years of clinical work with parents and children, and hundreds of happy families.

However, if you join Family Growth Pass and don't see positive results after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we'll refund your membership payment for the month, no questions asked. How's that for a no-risk proposition?!
Have a pressing question you need answered before joining Family Growth Pass?
Below is a list of the most common questions we've  been asked. If for some reason you don't see your question, just reach out to our support team at: support [AT] so we can assist you!
What makes the members of Family Growth Pass and all the testimonials I’ve seen so successful?
  1. MINDSET - beginning with an appreciation of self reflection and acknowledgement that we - as parents - play a large role in the behavior and mental health of our children.
  2. A focus on consistency - inside Family Growth Pass, we cover everything you need to know to create a connected family, happy kids and an enjoyable parenting experience. To achieve these results, you'll need to consistently apply your learnings - these aren't one-off fixes you can practice one day and leave for the next 30 - but you will  get you results if you put the time in.
  3. A customisable plan - your family is different. YOU are different. Family Growth Pass shows you how to adopt a new parenting mindset by implementing proven strategies and tweaking them based on the VISION you've created for yourself and your family, and its individual needs.
Is this the same as therapy?
Family Growth Pass is provided for informational purposes and is designed to help families build stronger connection and increase their parenting confidence, strategies and tactics. It is not therapy and shouldn't be used as a replacement for therapy.

For more information, see the Family Growth Pass Terms.
How is the course delivered? Wouldn't it be better to work with you 1-on-1?
I get this question a lot, and recently decided to make a video reply for a parent who asked. Here is a link to the video response I made her! :)

This sounds overwhelming. How much time will this take to implement?
How much time are you spending right NOW dealing with challenging behaviors, not knowing what to do in a given situation and bargaining with your children?

There's nothing more essential to the happiness of your family, your life and the relationship with your children than the ability to meet their psychological and emotional needs.

If it was easy, everyone would have picture-perfect families and therapists would be out of a job.

If this membership sounds like a beast, it might just be because you feel overwhelmed in your parenting life. And you're trying to imagine how you'll add this membership to your existing 'to-do' list

Family Growth Pass is the ANTIDOTE to overwhelm. It's a system designed to give you focus and clarity on your parenting stlyle. It will help you align your actions so you can see the BIG PICTURE of where your family is headed.

Also, you have access to all live trainings and past Q&A call recordings in Family Growth Pass. It is not the type of program where you have to gorge on the content quickly in order to see huge changes in your family. Inside the membership, you can choose to consume the fundamentals and watch each course in order, or pick the most pressing issues you'd like to tackle TODAY.

That doesn't require watching every video and completing every worksheet!

So, if you can commit an hour a week to the training, you can begin to see a whole new level of growth and progress in your family immediately.


"Just think about the amount of time you spend watching Netflix! I'm a single mom, I've got twins, I'm homeshooling AND I'm working full-time. If I can find the time, so can you."

- Total Parenting Transformation Student Kimberley

How does the price of Family Growth Pass compare with 1-on-1 therapy with you?
For the cost of less than a cup of coffee per day, you'll have me (literally) in your back pocket to help guide you through any parenting questions as they arise during the program.

By way of comparison, seeing me once a week for a single hour in the clinic comes in at over $10,000 annually (if I was still taking on clients).

And even then, you'd have to wait to ask any questions that pop up between sessions. That doesn't happen when you have a community forum that I'm in most days. It's a no-brainer!


"Even just doing the first few weeks has been enough value for us. If I think about the money we spend, and I think about the price of a holiday - would I choose this over a holiday? I'd choose it over holidays for the next five years. For us to have had all that we've learned ... this has given something that's worth a lifetime. I would wholeheartedly recommend Total Parenting Transformation with all my heart, because it's given us everything."

- Total Parenting Transformation Student Sarah
I already know a lot about parenting and just need help with a certain challenge. Will Family Growth Pass be helpful?
Many times students will approach me with a similar sentiment. Family Growth Pass is perfect in these situations as you can get the information you need and begin applying it IMMEDIATELY.

And if, like most students, you find there's a LOT of other strategies and mindset shifts you could start applying for a more connected family after you join, you can jump in to whatever topic piques your interest! Together, we can illuminate the way forward and help you start enjoying parenting even more!

So, unless you're already enjoying every aspect of parenting and what you're doing is WORKING, chances are Family Growth Pass is what you need to help you realize your parenting vision right now.
Will this work for my family? Our challenges are kind of unique.
Awesome question! It doesn't matter if you're facing debilitating anxiety or horrendous tantrums ... Family Growth Pass is designed to meet your child's core emotional and psychological needs.

This builds connection and trust, and minimizes (or outright removes) unwanted / challenging behaviors.

It works with any challenge because it teaches the foundational concepts and strategies that address 99.9% of issues faced by parents (and humans in general!).

Anyone willing to do the work can build connection and parenting satisfaction using Family Growth Pass!


"I asked 'are there many parents with teenagers on the Q&A calls'? because I thought it was really important that it was just about teenagers. When Heidi said, 'It will be just as relevant to you if we're talking about a 5-year-old or a teenager' ... I wasn't quite believing that. But actually it's true! You can listen to a Q&A call about a bedtime for a 5-year-old and actually get as much out of it as you would if they were talking about a teenager. I've actually learned they've got quite a lot in common!"

- Total Parenting Transformation Student Sarah

My partner doesn’t agree with my parenting philosophy. Will this be too much work just for me?
As you'll quickly learn, I highly recommend getting your partner on board to support you as you realize the VISION for your family. However, many of my parents do get results while flying solo, and sometimes it's unavoidable (that's ok too!).

Approaching your family without a unified parenting philosophy is more difficult, BUT the concepts and strategies you'll learn will help you create a happier home even if you're pulling all the weight.
I struggle with my confidence as a parent. Do I have to put myself out there and join the group discussions?
No. It's never been easier and more favorable for introverts who would like to improve their parenting experience than it is TODAY.

The beauty of online learning is that only YOU need to know you're a member :) There's no physical limitations, no time limitations - login whenever you have time!
What can I expect when I enroll in Family Growth Pass?
Upon completing your order, you will receive an email immediately with your login details.

Family Growth Pass is a digital video training portal. When you join your purchase includes INSTANT access to the recorded video library PLUS monthly live trainings and AMAs for the duration of your membership!
What is the guarantee / refund policy for Family Growth Pass?
If you join Family Growth Pass and don't see positive results in your family after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we'll refund your membership payment for the month, no questions asked.

I want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to enroll and join the Community! Please see our Terms and Conditions for more.
Is there support available if I get stuck?
As a member of Family Growth Pass, I want you to know 'I've got your back!'.

You have THREE unique ways to get t he support and feedback you need:

  1. The Private (Members-Only) Parenting Community. This is your community. This is your chance to ask questions and get feedback about your parenting challenges. You may be surprised how many people have faced - and overcome - similar situations!
  2. Your LIVE AMA calls.  As a new Member, you'll also receive LIVE AMA calls with me and the other members. Any questions or clarifications you need can be directed to me LIVE on our calls!
  3. My Support Team.  Any 'technical' issues about your membership (billing, login, etc.) can be addressed by Ally and our support team in quick time!
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